Suffer from the cancer father to write hundreds of thousands of words are rich and gentle Let the daughter grow up and experience father love

Suffer from the cancer father to write hundreds of thousands of words are rich and gentle Let the daughter grow up and experience father love
Suffer from the cancer father to write hundreds of thousands of words are rich and gentle Let the daughter grow up and experience father love
[Read, brief on ] he once terminally ill, but come over very much strongly; Have a relapse two years later, he has not still given up, records one's own life sidelight and thoughts and feelings in life with the blog, the ones that wrote down hundreds of thousands of words for the daughter are rich and gentle. He comes from Hubei Wuhan, is " cancer father " who moves numerous net friends Zhang Ming. The arrival in 2011, to Zhang Ming lying on the sick bed, there is one kind of special implied meanings: " 2011, love you in accordance with depending on " . Until in accordance with the intersection of he and daughter of two year old more than, it is he that insist on, alive, insist most loud power of the writing. 29 -year-old Zhang Ming, it is " cancer father " in net friend's mouth . He until inconceivable all sorts of illness torment, insist on, it writes down hundreds of thousands of word to be rich and gentle, for if you can't let by daughter, there are strong on that father after seeing after growing up,experience by father love that be disappeared never, and obtained strength from it and went to overcome each frustration in life. The body lies down, spirit stands erect In the afternoon of February 24, weak Zhang Ming lies on the sick bed in home, turns on the computer, browse through the message on oneself blog, this is his required course of every day. " I am waiting for the second operation, hope to have an opportunity to turn better, accompany the daughter and grow up " ,One chirps and says gently. " wrote blogs were all some life trival matters in the past, really began to record in life, began since February 27, 2008 " ,Zhang Ming says. In the afternoon of that day, he got and diagnosed the result from the hospital: Malignant lymphoma. At that time, he was still less than 26 years old. Zhang Ming is from Hubei Wuhan, came to work for an IT enterprise in Guangzhou after graduation from institute of technology of South China in 2005, have been also admitted to the on-the-job master of Hubei university the work. While learning the condition, his daughter has been already in mother's stomach. On June 18, 2008, the little life was borned. " the daughter's arrival has injected new life and strength into me " ,Zhang Ming says. In a daily record on July 5, 2008, Zhang Ming wrote like this: "The chemotherapy in the aseptic storehouses of 22 days, countless tears, countless agony, I do not really know how I spent On June 18, my family has a little life, from today, I have many to want to leave to her. " This little life is named letting " In accordance with depending on " ,Partials " medicine " ,Family hope she brings the good luck to father. In October of 2008, Zhang Ming accepts the first bone-marrow transplantation. The operation is successful, one chirps and " lives " again Come over,and it is new without being found since it is here Wuhan job. In the new environment, he gets to know a lot of new friends again, lives a normal and calm life. However, no one expects, on July 27, 2010, the misfortune will come once again. The hospital announces, one chirps and has a relapse. " this is that another of my life is attacked, the whole family all feel that it is difficult to bear " ,Zhang Ming says. Small sick bed, big love "After falling ill, my stage becomes very small, only a sick bed, a computer. " However, just through a computer, Zhang Ming gets to know countless net friends who cared about him, encouraged him. The friend in some life visits him by irregular steps, look after him or help him to accompany the daughter in accordance with depending on even more. Zhang Ming's daily record, not having no bitterness, but the one that mostly overcame Death again and again is strong, plain gratitude of friends that does not meet to daughter, to love of family, to familiar with, have it to the life, to the happy comprehension. Through the daily record, the increasingly many person has come into his inner world, and is moved by him. "The happy meaning is simple and complicated, the famous car of luxurious house is, a custard one soup steamed bun bread is too. " "Before falling ill, always wanted to pursue happily and easily, always wanted to get them directly, but find finally the most meaningful one is happy and peaceful in life, or a kind of tranquility after overcoming painful happiness and one kind noisily. " "It rubs out to grow up, I hope what brought to all people around is the motive force of the life, this is that I can only accomplish the last thing. Chemotherapy lets my flaw be innumerable, riddled with gaping wounds, I will do all one can to struggle definitely, in the reality that can't bear here, in one's own range in power, make sure the best! " Such a Zhang Ming, is called " intelligent, well-informed person of the self-improvement " by the net friend ,A net friend leaves a message in his blog every day, it is " refueling " to present the word supreme in frequency while leaving a message . Up to February, already more than 2000 such net friends have left a message in Zhang Ming's blog. Because QQ of Ming Zhang too many and already unable in addition in good friend, Tengxun old clear network open up pieces of the intersection of QQ and group for him specially also, give a name " in accordance with depending on the love group " ,The good friend who joins this group reaches more than 1000 people. Some net friends contribute money for Zhang Ming spontaneously. "Care of friend, in me speech, one kind loud to love, they give me an enormous encouragement, let me hold out through each painful treatment, has not given up " ,Zhang Ming says feeling grateful. Parents and family, strong backing Support a strong backing of ringing the life, it is his parents, his family. Zhang Ming's parents are in order to raise the money to cure the disease for him, has already sold a house property. Father suffers from the liver ascites, will go for hospital treatment soon for some time, in order to strengthen the confidence that resists with disease for the son, father who can only in the past be lying in bed, began at home too exercise stands uped. Mother Zhang JinHua is the busiest person of the whole family, should look after two patients, work as a temporary labourer and earn money in another side. Zhang Ming wrote in a daily record entitled clangorous mother: "Yesterday mother said, father's belly ascites is more than 20 jin, it is unwilling to go to the hospital to bear all the time. Mother nursed me for a whole night last night, set out from my ward early in the morning, went home in a hurry to send father to the hospital to draw water. Mother says so long as she can shoulder for one day, this family would not break up. " In another daily record, Zhang Ming wrote: "A lot of net friends say I am intelligent, well-informed persons of the self-improvement, I think even more that suit my mother, it must be kindhearted in all one's life that she always teaches me, do not hate, not give up as hopeless. " Zhang Ming's parents will strengthen " The gene " Heredity give Ming Zhang, but Ming Zhang want, transmit the strong, the feeling to lick calf to one's own daughter in accordance with depending on. For the daughter, he always feels sorry. Zhang Ming says: "It hope I in accordance with in accordance with can grow up healthy and sound,it is can last this special childhood such as she blog of me not to hope by she after growing up, no matter I am here, or out. " However, a greatest wish of chirping can accompany the daughter and grow up, do to a father well. Insist on, it is a victory that insist on! (Tian DouDou)


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