Of our country countryside stay behind to take care of things children about 58 million Happy senses are generally normal

Of our country countryside stay behind to take care of things children about 58 million Happy senses are generally normal
Of our country countryside stay behind to take care of things children about 58 million Happy senses are generally normal
According to " national countryside stay behind to take care of things children's research report " that the All-China Women's Federation release will it be February 2008, countryside stay behind to take care of things the intersection of total number and about 58 million people of children, concentrate on being distributed in provinces such as Sichuan, Anhui, Henan, Guangdong, Hunan,etc.. The demand for making them psychological or physiological with parents' separation for a long time can not be satisfied, feeling of loneliness, tense sense, sense of loss and anxious sense, children's ubiquitous psychology of staying behind to take care of things experience. Feeling of loneliness, tense sense, sense of loss and anxious sense, children's ubiquitous psychology of staying behind to take care of things experience Ms. Cai in Wuhu of Anhui goes out to work as a temporary labourer for 3 years. Coming back home, she could hardly recognize one's own son. The 5 -year-old son stays behind to take care of things in the countryside, brought by grandparents, the husband goes out to work as a temporary labourer too. She finds, very great change has taken place in son's personality. Ms. Cai asks the son, what do grandparents eat for you? The son has not answered. Ask again, the son will be boiling with rage: Rice - -Meal! Choke so that she wonders what to say in quite a while. If a little the thing is not so good as his wishing, the son wails and makes a scene, will break the small fist on her like raindrop. Limited by economic condition, a lot of rural workers go out to work as a temporary labourer, but unable to solve a great deal of realistic problems that children go down town to study in and face, for example worse house condition, high borrowing the expenses, working unstably are unable to look after children etc.. Then, they can only choose to keep the child in the countryside, are looked after by elder or other people, have formed the situation in which parents both sides or the party separates with two places of child finally, stay behind to take care of things children therefore production. According to " national countryside stay behind to take care of things children's research report " that the All-China Women's Federation release will it be February 2008, countryside stay behind to take care of things the intersection of total number and about 58 million people of children, concentrate on being distributed in provinces such as Sichuan, Anhui, Henan, Guangdong, Hunan,etc.. In large scale when stays behind to take care of things in children's team in this, a lot of children are because of the relative disappearance of parents' kindred, general rural children are more serious that the psychological conflict experienced compares with perhaps the pressure. July 11, in the intersection of Tsing-Hua University and " the the intersection of rural worker and the intersection of sons and younger brothers and education seminar " on sociology department host Go, Beijing Normal University develops an item of latest research results that psychological Dr. Liu Xia of research institute has introduced her. This research shows, compared with children with normal situation, flowing and staying behind to take care of things brings certain negative influence to children's psychological development. Flow and children's life satisfaction of staying behind to take care of things, sense of self-respect, positive mood and happiness sense are lower than the children of control group, the colony discriminates against consciousness, passive mood and external question behavior and is higher than the children of control group. Feeling of loneliness, tense sense, sense of loss and anxious sense, children's ubiquitous psychology of staying behind to take care of things experience. Go down for a long time, will make them offset the psychology, bring the feeling of negative psychology, it is to result in committing suicide to be serious even more. The media reports recently, Shaanxi Fufeng county apricot and forest Town are 5 sixth grade primary school students, 4 stay behind to take care of things children countryside among them. They make an appointmant with an ancient temple to drink pesticide and commit suicide, good fortune is passed by on one's way villagers and sent to the hospital in time after finding. Two after rescuing out of danger student, other 3 people go home check in good health. If ignore and stay behind to take care of things children and children's rights and interests of flowing, it is incomplete that we will welcome the emotion, the society and responsibility of family will be cold and detached even is full of a generation against direction "No one has taken me by hand for a long time, no one has touched my head for a long time, small ice-cold hands send the forehead permed, it is the time missing you to fall ill most "One stay behind to take care of things song of children, sing so as to let people feel sad. Stay behind to take care of things most of children grow up in this kind of environment, they lack the warmth of the family, lack care of parents, if can't clean body regard for oneself, " the less advanced grows " in very apt to become unhealthy thought proper lacking collective sensing psychology school . Children complain that those of grade of a name 5 stay behind to take care of things: "My father's telephone makes me bored. " My father does not always come back to see him. He does not miss father, phones to only ask the school grade each time, OK, except say that studies hard on the phone, it seems without other things, let him feel vexed. Even if not had good mark in achievement, he is unwilling to speak to father. What he wants to say, but my father does not say to him. A mother (father) Kissing can surpass 100 teachers. It is the children's material life and school grade that stay behind to take care of things most of parents of children's cared about, and neglected their psychological need. Professor of Tsing-Hua University department of psychology Fan FuMin thinks, parents go out to work to make to stay behind to take care of things the care which children get is reduced, and these children are in the transitional period when the emotion personality is being changed, the demand for making them psychological or physiological with parents' separation for a long time can not be satisfied, most children miss parents, passivism mood is perplexing them. Mr. Liu from Henan says, he misses children, but the child studies in the city too difficult - -The procedure is miscellaneous, there is recessiveness different to bear that charges. Expecting a newsstand of pendulum not to have incomes of more than 2000 yuan until January, he have to drop. Release" development report 2010 ", floating population of China, reveal, floating population is up to 211 million people in 2009 in our country newly, among them the children 14 years old and under account for 20.8%. National the intersection of Population Planning Committee and the intersection of floating population and Qian Wang, Vice chief of department, think of our country floating population flow to development-oriented to change from person who survive. The whole family of floating population moves the proportion and rises, is horboring and inclining to be obvious for a long time flowing into. Children's educational problem of flowing was not well solved, come from the profound institutional reason. Dong Yang, Professor of Beijing Institute of Technology, think this current in urban and rural areas two structure, the intersection of household register and whom system lead to the fact isolate mainly while being flat, make rural worker's colony difficult to enjoy the public service, social welfare and guarantee of residence. And " in order to flow into as the main fact " Policy, voluntary to be involve education funds what transformations, thus has aggravated the financial pressure of flowing into the ground government. Liu Xia's research shows, flows children are prone to the sense refused in incorporating the urban course, shown as the strong discrimination consciousness. And stay behind to take care of things the psychological problem that children mainly face is the mood problem, are embodied in the increase of passive mood. Childhood whether one personal physiology and psychology happen period that change and move to maturity gradually, also a person's outlook on life and period when the values establish gradually. Liu ZhengKui, Assistant Researcher of Ins of Developed Organisms,Academia Sinica, worries about this very much. He thinks, if ignore and stay behind to take care of things children and children's rights and interests of flowing, it is incomplete that we will welcome the emotion, the society and responsibility of family will be cold and detached even is full of a generation against direction, the ones that thus make the society fall into a large amount of " There is no reason to set against " In the swirl of conflicting with contradiction, this will be that the modernization and what the urbanization can't bear bearing will be heavy. Look from different fields, it is superior to staying behind to take care of things flowing. Should set up reasonable system as soon as possible, guarantee rural worker children and town child with very blue to grow up healthy and sound all over the world Summer vacation will come, Guangzhou airport " little migratory bird " of railway station Multiplication. A different from spring send back the tide of Guangdonging one, come whom 3- 14 year old vary stay behind to take care of things children mostly. They a lot of take advantage of coming to Guangzhou to reunite with parents working as a temporary labourer vacation. Children say that one stay behind to take care of things: "Reunite, hope that can stay at Papa and Mama's side oneself in my hope and Papa and Mama, feel it on like other children like this. " Compare with, flow children and stay behind to take care of things children, Zhejiang Wang of normal university think by ShuiZhen and Liu ChengBin, no matter in physically and mentally healthy, broadness of knowledge, or in interpersonal relationships, it is superior to staying behind to take care of things flowing. This means rural worker children choose to flow, can protect the healthy development of it even more. The various circles of society put into caring about more and support, set up rational system as soon as possible, guarantee rural worker children and town child with very blue to grow up healthy and sound all over the world. DongPing Yang propose, improve the intersection of rural worker and sons and younger brothers educate, need breaking away from outdated traditional modes of thought and system innovation. Flow into on one hand government have responsibility undertake, flow children's education responsibility voluntarily. Meanwhile, set up, flow the intersection of children and the intersection of compulsory education and " educational certificate " through pilot project System,flow it hold children certificate get because schools urban go to school, can't concentrate on not exchanging by education funds among province and city. The city should set up municipal or district financial mechanism which the tertiary government of town shares, make the governments at all levels share and flow children's education responsibility together, offer sufficient resources for the fact that the rural worker children accept equal education. At present, children are mostly unable to flow in short term that stay behind to take care of things. The expert proposes, in school education, implement " agency's patriarchal system " ,Stay behind to take care of things child as a special colony, school and teacher pay special concern. Set up, stay behind to take care of things the intersection of children and the intersection of psychological health and file as soon as possible at the same time, common to " stay behind to take care of things children " Psychological pressure in the dominance and recessiveness dredge,what has been if you can't offer to them, pour outed channel, make their psychological obstacle get the prompt mediation to guide. Liu Xia thinks, according to children's development course in all one's life, it is temporary stage to flow and stay behind to take care of things, the effect of impact on children individuals is phased too. The environmental weak tendency is not equal to children's ability weak tendency, " the situation is unfavorable " Not equal to " Abnormal " ,The unfavorable children that plays of the situation are not " The problem child " . To the relative weak tendency of children in developing the index of flowing and staying behind to take care of things, should put even more in order to improve under the environmental background of the macroscopic.


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